Conformity Is Easier – It is hard to be different and stick out in the crowd because of ridicule, judgement and rejection by others. Main thing to remember is that success always begins with you, so if you aren’t believing… Doubt – Many times when dreaming about success in one form or another, you have thought, “It is impossible!” and then you don’t even attempt to make it reality. It seems easier to socially exist if we just “be” who everyone wants us to be. Fear – We are scared of being hurt, ridiculed and not accepted, so we conform and smother the authentic self. Inside and outside forces that smother our authentic self include: There are so many inside and outside forces that smother the authentic self, but they can all be dealt with advantageously or banished with effort. While other people are trying to pigeon hole us in one place, we are trying to authenticize our self some place else. Not only do they have an opinion, but they often insist on making their opinion our reality. Why don’t we appreciate our value and worth? Being true to who we are and how we feel is extremely difficult because we live on a planet with billions of other people who are trying to do a lot of the same things we are doing and they have an opinion. On top of it all, the person who is the most critical of every aspect of our being is the same person that looks back at us in the mirror. We all know, however, that acceptance of our individuality doesn’t happen most of the time. Since every person is an absolute one-of-a-kind model, the reality should be that we all exist as happily as tweeting birds on a spring morning. Phony just isn’t going to give you the fullness of true happiness. The first goal is to get in touch with our Hope Diamond and leave the fake diamond in the bubblegum machine. The authentic self is the essence of you that wants to be part of the expression in everything you do because IT IS YOU. It isn’t defined by your placement in a family unit or career. The authentic self is a culmination of all things that are you – knowledge, talents, skills, attitude, perspective. It is the you that is buried deep within your soul and in the very core of your being. The authentic self is the real, genuine you. My emotions are raw and pain filled if I even start thinking about the topic…Īre you like the fake diamond you get out of the bubblegum machine or are you like the Hope Diamond in the Smithsonian Natural History Museum? That is the difference between the fictitious self and the authentic self. 
The authentic self is an uncomfortable topic for me… I’ve spent three hours trying not to write a personal post, but I guess I just need to express myself and be done with it. I started a post about a new housing idea, but it sounded boring. I started a Chuckle Of The Day post, but it didn’t make me laugh. When the topic is something personal, I usually don’t even have to think much about it because it flows so easily. When I sit down to write my “personal” posts, the words flow from my fingers, appear on the screen and in less than an hour, a post is born.
He has been active in the music since 1990.This above all: To thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. He was born Januand is from Minneapolis, MN. Jason Gray’s real name is Jason Jeffrey Gay. This song is from his album A Way to See in the Dark. This is the official music video from Jason Gray “Remind Me Who I Am” It is coming from YouTube from CentricCityMusic.
Jason Gray – Remind Me Who I Am (Official Music Video)
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